Hidden Valley Resort, Tijeres, New Mexico - almost 20 years later
We stayed here on our first trip to California, where we stayed at the wild and now off the map Protreros, California. It was a campground I found that was less than 20 miles to San Diego (and of course cheap) but what I didn’t know was that those miles were across mountains and that the hikes there were full of cat smell and we could hear the large prairie dog type animals squeal as they were killed during the night. It was really a beautiful place, but Nicholas was preschool and Maura was terrified so we moved to a campground on the beach in San Diego. Some things are worth what you pay for them…. but on the way we stayed here, where we met Jerry Lewis, who had been to Mexico to get tamales and which Kerry ate one. I declined. He told us that we would soon want something bigger than the pop-up we were traveling in. We did move up, but it wasn’t really our choice, and while we did enjoy it, I wonder what he would say about our little camper that we’ve put 6000 miles and almost two months on. He was a good bit older than us, and even though he was a permanent here, he probably isn’t here, and maybe not alive.
We are extending our stay here, not for the food, which would be what would be nice; but for replacing or hopefully repairing the axle on our small home. Although we do not know of a really hard bump, there have definitely been roads in need of repair. (I wonder if we should sue California so they’ll repair them up front… we discovered that SC spends more in lawsuits than if they just maintained the roads..) Anyway, bottom line is a tire went flat while we were staying at the Motel 6 in case we were needed for our house closing, and the tire guy said it couldn’t be fixed and that it was an alignment problem. When Kerry looked at the other tire, he discovered that it was starting to bulge in the same way the other one was (except on the other side). The alignment guy in Albuquerque said that they would try to fix it, but if not, it would be a new axle and two hundred bucks more…. and then we need to replace the tires. Needless to say, this was not in our budget. So when we leave here, we will be taking the short route home… which is still not short.
We are looking forward to our new home in Port St. Joe, but I have learned that I have Kerry and our grand-dogs, and all of our needs provided for in our little abode. It takes organization and communication (which is difficult when one of us can’t hear and the other can’t say what she wants to), but those are not negatives, and we are truly blessed.
And speaking of blessed, the reason I have not written in this blog is because I have been with Shosha. It has been way too long and we enjoyed every minute. She did not suffer the breath stifling squeezes that Nicholas had to endure because early in our stay, she hurt her back and could barely move. On the plus side, she couldn’t ride to Davis and worked from home while we were there. On the down side, she was pretty drugged. But I just loved being with her. Watching her sleep is way better than being over 2000 miles away. And we did have some times away from the house. Our first night was in a great restaurant where we actually shared a whole pitcher of beer because we all liked the same thing… a pretty rare thing because I like light beer and Kerry likes it thick as molasses. It was something named after Thelonius Monk who is Kerry’s favorite jazz musician. It wasn’t quite as good for Matt who was driving and could only have one (which is all Shosha and I had, too) We pretty much let Matt drive us everywhere so Kerry and I could sit in the back and let Shosha and Matt have the front. He knew where we were going and had all kind of back roads he knew about.
We also got to go to the farmers market twice where Shosha and Matt introduced us to some awesome tamales… the vegetarian one which actually sold out first. Kerry had pork, of course, the first time and chili cheese the second (which is actually no meat, too) Also, the extremely high calorie chocolate drink. We also picked up the best strawberries that we pretty much wiped out in the first few days. (We got more on our second trip so that Shosha and Matt could have some.)
One of the best things we did was to go to an art show at Matt’s workplace. We were just so in awe of the artwork done with heavy metal… and such intricate work. And, of course, Matt was able to tell us exactly how it was done. Even though he is doing more of the business end, he has learned so much about this really amazing art form. We were so impressed with his knowledge and with the art. (Of course, Matt is like Kerry in that he is super knowledgeable about so many different things.)
We also got to meet Aubrey and Kent who are such good friends with Shosha and Matt. Kent and Matt were constantly talking about things that I believe were in some foreign language. And then there was something about killing Pokemans? in virtual space, like in the house. I have since heard a little bit about it from news shows, but I think I’ll stay in my technology ignorant state. That’s one of the things I’ve loved about this trip… an absence of technology… Granted we’ve appreciated how it’s helped us in many ways in our travels… including blogging instead of journaling on paper or on computer, either place of which I can manage to lose it…but we’ve spent more time doing other things. I’ve read so many books that I am constantly confusing them… a good problem to have.
While hanging out at Shosha’s house, we also tried to make ourselves useful. Kerry weed-eated the front and back yard as well as cooking us great food. I did my usual unskilled labor of washing dishes and vacuuming and sweeping… which was helpful, just not on the same page as the outside stuff. Shosha directed Matt in digging and planting and transplanting their front yard garden. It is really looking good. Kerry would have been at my throat had I given as much direction as Shosha did, but Matt was great. He is pretty much great in all their interactions. I told him he was wonderful at mothering Shosha when she was sick/injured and made me feel better about being so far away. He was constantly encouraging her and helping her physically. they would do this dance in the floor to help her stretch her muscles. I can see a bit of his mid-westerness and I really love it. (Of course, much of what I know of that area comes from Garrison Keller, so maybe it’s just super niceness) Whatever it is, they make a good pair.
I have quite a bit of cleaning to do in this camper while we wait for tomorrow to go get it fixed. We will have the car tomorrow but the biggest challenge will be finding a place in the shade for us and the dogs… otherwise we may be driving as much as a travel day. Wish us luck!